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Post by WanderIntoTheSky on Apr 18, 2005 23:04:50 GMT -5
Hello. Well I was just wondering if anyone else feels excluded a lot.
Hey I'm always here.
I said excluded, not alone.
Not by groups that you don't really fit into or anything like that, but by people that are your friends and that you have known for a very long time.
Or are wei by ourselves on this one?
You are usually pretty quiet, I'm the louder one.
Yes, but still.
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Post by Zoe 'n' Calosta on Apr 19, 2005 6:03:24 GMT -5
Do you mean excluded because of our daemons? I don't, I just feel privileged ^^ Some people can't accept that daemons are real, so they ignore it and sometimes ignore you. People can be cruel sometimes but no, I've never felt exluded
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Post by |3200k1 on Apr 19, 2005 15:08:07 GMT -5
Hahah. I feel privilaged too. Nemith says we're 'enlightened'. Anyways,as for being excuded by friends,yes,it happens. Especially if they're all talking about something or doing something that you weren't there for. Don't worry,it happens to everyone-even them sometimes. It's nothing to worry over wether yo're quitt or not.Maybe you should talk to one of them about it.
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Post by Annie on Apr 19, 2005 16:48:07 GMT -5
That happens to me all the time. But it's not because of Rho. Nobody knows about Rho. I think they just hate me. Only a few people don't actively exclude me from things, seemingly, purposefully. I don't know why they do it, but I'm used to it. I like being by myself better than talking about what clothes look best, or who's going out with who, and that kind of stuff. But when I get bored I like to talk to people. And girl scouts. I've known those people all my life, and they pretend I'm not there. My 'friend' did that to me recently so I dropped her. If she's going to make vital plans for everyone, exclude me, then not tell me about it when I /need/ to know then she's not my friend. She still thinks she is though. I just ignore her. Besides, she betrayed my trust a while back, and I thought I could forgive and forget, but I really can't. She used to come here. Nobody would ever remember her because she posted like...4 times. All about AFI. *rolls eyes*
Anywho, yes, I'm excluded often, but I don't generally mind. But that's why I like it here. Nobody really excludes anyone else. =) I'm treated like a human. That's always nice.
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Post by |3200k1 on Apr 19, 2005 16:51:52 GMT -5
*hugs for Wander**hugs for Hannah* ^_^ I <3 you both! XP
I'm actually the center of our group and I make it my buisness to make sure that NO ONE is excluded,but it can be hard sometimes (i.e.-trip or something that only 5 people can go on....),so...Yeah. >_<;
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Post by Sil and Veil on Apr 19, 2005 17:28:52 GMT -5
Well in school, I'm considered "weird". I don't even mention the talking deer in my head. Can't think where that would lead me. XD But I have a lot of friends, oddly enough, and everyone seems to at least know my name. I've told my closest friends about daemons, but no one has taken to it that badly save one, so far.
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Post by emily on Apr 19, 2005 18:50:47 GMT -5
Hm. I do feel excluded at school most of the time, but that's only because my circle of friends is outside of school and we're a tight-knit bunch. I don't need or even particularly like the people at school, and they pick up on it. At my old school I wasn't academic and hard-working enough to fit in with my fellow I.B.'s and now I'm too much of a freak. But c'est la vie.
It was different before though, in elementary school I was alllllwwwaays excluded by my 'friends' and desperate to be liked. Until I got fed up with the way things were, I was always the odd one out. Eventually, everyone grew up a little and grew apart, now I only talk to one or two of those girls. But it was ruining my life for a long time. My sister always felt like that as well, she just used to tell me that I had to wait for university when I'd meet people for real.
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Post by Tatl & Valian on Apr 19, 2005 20:02:56 GMT -5
TI think they just hate me. Only a few people don't actively exclude me from things, seemingly, purposefully. I don't know why they do it, but I'm used to it. OH my god, I know exactly what you mean. I feel like everyone makes fun of me behind my back, and to make matters worse, our class is so closely knit and I feel like I;m aways on the edge... God this topic is depressing. XD
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Post by WanderIntoTheSky on Apr 19, 2005 21:33:23 GMT -5
Thanks for all the input. It sort of makes me feel better. And sorry if you are getting depressed, you could always go listen to happy music. Or do what I do and sing along to a sad song.
The sad thing is that you can't sing.
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Post by Sil and Veil on Apr 19, 2005 21:57:07 GMT -5
Together, we outcasts make one big.... not outcast... thing... And I can't sing either. XD Do you have a screenname Wander?
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Post by Kiba on Apr 20, 2005 7:09:45 GMT -5
I have never felt excluded, as long as you have friends that shouldn't happen at all. Of course guys are usually fairly open with there feelings as well, they will usualy tell what is going on if something happens.
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Post by Vicky on Apr 20, 2005 9:00:38 GMT -5
I was always picked on and completely excluded all throughout school. Finally I found a nice group of friends, but even sometimes now, I have problems with friends... kinda annoying.
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Post by |3200k1 on Apr 20, 2005 16:29:53 GMT -5
I have never felt excluded, as long as you have friends that shouldn't happen at all. Of course guys are usually fairly open with there feelings as well, they will usualy tell what is going on if something happens. <aybe that explains me. I'm alot like that. Meh. All those guys I hang out with have started rubbing off on me! *runs to take a shower*
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Post by Kiba on Apr 20, 2005 18:16:49 GMT -5
Well that is the deal with guys you know we are usualy fairly truthful and honest with ourselves unless some girls are around then things get interesting.
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Post by Zoe 'n' Calosta on Apr 21, 2005 11:14:23 GMT -5
Ooh a boy's insight! Define interesting? Oh and answer the age-old question - can boys be friends with a girl without sex getting involved? Can there truly be a platonic relationship, excluding gay guys?
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