Sex, Drugs and Rock n' Roll

[Jafizzle]

i need help..... i just had what shud have been the most pleasureable night of my life...... the night i lost my virginity.... yet my daemon.... he seemed to be enjoying a little too much... all on his own.. as i was making love, i turned over and there he was, lying on his back, his eyes rolling back up in his head.. and he was shaking as if he were in the middle of a convulsion, and he wasnt anywhere near my partners daemon... is this what's supposed to happen.........??

[Ed]

You know Ja, the title of this thread is Sex,Drugs and Rock n Roll....I see the sex,but ...
If you don't fix this I might be forced to say you were going off-topic with your crazy sex rant.

[Okibi]

Note: I've done a lot of thinking it over, and it looks like the rule for locking mature threads will be this... 'Threads will be locked or deleted if they contain material that isn't appropriate for younger readers (i.e. explicit sex, masturbation, or nude photos). Such conversations can be done through MSN, AIM, or PM.' Ja, your thread was saved from deletion because you didn't go into a lot of detail. Please make sure to keep it that way. Dare, I guess that means I should unlock your one thread, too.

Anyway, to Ja again... Are you saying your dæmon enjoyed it more than you? And... is that really a problem? The rest of us here don't know what a dæmon does during sex, so we can't say if what he did is normal or not. I'd imagine the two dæmons would interact, but that may not always be the case. Don't take this to offense, but maybe it means you and your partner aren't close emotionally...? That'd just be my guess...

Edit: I should also mention this kind of thing is okay once in a while (you appear to be asking for help), but I don't want this forum covered in threads about dæmons-and-sex. =P This will not be a frequent topic of discussion, 'k?

[Jafizzle]

excuuuuuuusee me?! god forbid i mention something that interests everyone, for the love of god, GROW UP, ok everyone knows about sex, masterbation, etc. and everyone needs to gain a little perspective and realize that its a part of human life and even tho u may not associate it in ur life persnally, it can be a large part in everyone elses.... and i mean for those ppl who have problems in that area, they need other ppl to talk to about it.. so if u wanna stay a virgin all ur life and pretend sex doesnt exist, then fine, but dont threaten to delete my thread and tel me what im talking about is too "Detailed" or "inappropriate" for all readers...

[Okibi]

What you wrote is fine, Ja... But, yes, I don't want sex talked about too openly on this forum. Please understand that I want it to be viewable for a general audience, and some things just aren't appropriate for discussion on a public forum. Movies and fan fics have ratings for a reason. Similar to that, I'm trying to keep these threads PG-13. It's okay for you to be brief about your experience to ask for help (which you did), but I don't want any member to start rambling on about sex in detail (which you DIDN'T - I never said you did).

[Annie]

I think what she means is that since younger readers come here, she doesn't want to be exposing them to graphic things as such. I don't think she wants to pretend sex doesn't exist, but then I don't really know, though I am pretty sure that if she does, she isn't saying what she did for that reason. Okibi didn't mean to offend anyone, she's just laying down a rule. This is her forum. If you want to be a part of it, you'll have to bend a bit to conform yourself to her rules. Is that too hard? *fumes slightly* If someone asks you to not talk about such things that may make others uncomfortable, then you should respect their wishes, especially if they have the power to kick you off.

I rarely sound so harsh, but what you said made me angry. I don't mean to run you off or anything, but take into consideration what I said. It might keep you from getting deleted.

Edit: of course. Okibi gets here before me. -_-

[Ed]

yeah! exactly! and you still never said anything about drugs or rock n roll...what exactly are you trying to pull here eh ja?

[SNL_Ali]

Firstishly off, calm downnnn J-Fizzle person. Chill. For a moment. She only moved your thread....it wasn't deleted or anything....the question is still up for grabs.

Anyways, i'm a virgin myself, (so I guess I don't have much of a say on this, but hey I'll try), but from what it sounds like I don't really see anything wrong with what your daemon did. I'm sure Tyb would nearly have a heart attack when I have sex for the first time. Anyways, what you asked was more of a statement than a question....but to answer the last part, yeah, I think that was supposed to happen? I'm really not sure, but thats my best guess.

EDIT: You know though, Ja, just wanted to add in that it is kinda sorta a little suspicious that this post just happened to be your first one. :S Welcome to the forum anyways.

[Amelia]

maybe its because the actual pleasure, the moment, didn't involve thinking about your lover, per se, just the feelings and the physical pleasure.

[Kroven/Fenris]

So I thought I'd share my thoughts on this matter (and just so we're clear, this is all from my own experiance, and I am in no way, shape or form claiming it's true for all daemons).

I think that when you have sex for sex's sake, your daemon would do what ja's did (i.e. having fun on it's own), but when you're trully making love, yours and your partner's daemon would ''have fun'' together.

That's how it is with Fen and me anyways. *shrug*